心情有如四季

Tuesday, November 21, 2006

亲情，爱情，友情，家人，爱人，友人


我想问大家一些问题。
亲情，爱情和友情能相提并论吗？
可以做比较吗？
理由是？
那家人，爱人和友人呢？

一个是关系，一个是人，千万别搞错。
更不要误会这是“如果他们同时掉进水会救谁”这些问题。
我没有问那个重要，如果你要说出那个比较重要也没问题。
其实你不只是回答我，也回答了你自己。
这样的观念会影响你的人生。
希望你们看了这问题，然后想一想，
写下你的观念，让大家分享一下。
谢谢


posted by wAisEnG at 2:11 PM

9 Comments:

  • 有一些人已经回答我
    5个人说是不能相提并论的，更不能做比较。
    因为他们都是不一样个关系，扮演的角色也不一样。他们给的待遇更是不一样。
    有两个人不懂得回答。
    答案应该没有对于错吧
    只是观念不一样而已

    By Blogger wAisEnG, At 2:58 PM  

  • Maybe you haven't meet your life partner... DON'T give up on finding true love.. DON'T give up yourself.. and DON'T give up your future!
    From the other point of view, they are 4 types of relationships:


    Soul mates

    Soul mates are souls that have travelled with you in the other lifetimes, learning and sharing similar experiences and lessons. Soul mates may be family members, close friends and certain people who come in and out of our lives and have left an important impact.



    Karmic soul mates

    These are souls that still have karma connected to us. The karma concerned does not necessarily to be bad karma, it can also be good karma. A karmic soul mate may be a family member, a close friend, a romantic partner, or any relationship that has importance in our lives. We share lessons with these souls and sometimes these relationships are uncomfortable and may even be hurtful.

    The people who are our karmic soul mates invoke deep feelings within us, either positive or negative. A romantic relationship with a karmic soul mate won’t last long because these relationships are meant for lessons and growth rather than for life partnership.



    Companion soul mates

    This is a romantic relationship or a very close relationship. There is still karma between the two people to work out and this is the reason why the two souls meet up again. Often, companion soul mates will come together for a particular trial or lesson in this life either in the form of a romantic relationship, a business partnership, or a very close long term friend.

    If it is a romantic relationship, it won’t last long because basically the two of you were brought together to both learn a lesson and once the lesson is over it is time to part.

    It is possible for companion soul mates to join together as life partners (the great majority of romantic relationships are of this nature), especially when the twin flame is not present in this lifetime, but it is usually more a short-term relationship.



    Twin flames

    This is basically your other half. This is the person we all search for in our lives, but more than likely our other half is on another astral level or even serving us as our spirit guide, waiting for us to learn life’s lessons and then return to them to join them as one.

    The concept of a twin flame comes from the belief that at the time of creation, a soul comes forth and splits, creating a male and female aspect of the flame. The goal of each flame is to reunite and become one again. When you meet your twin flame, it is like finding yourself.



    We all want to know just how much we have in common with the other person. What we are doing is looking for ourselves in others and we won’t feel complete, even if we are already in a relationship, until we meet up with our other half to make one, to be complete.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 5:15 PM  

  • ai..... seem nobody give u comment woh... hehe... i ans u oledi... no need say again la... but u muz let it go leh... she have her 'guan nian' mah... y still struggle at here leh... 'hao hao guo ba'... good luck...

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 10:30 AM  

  • hey,you guy and gal seem like post a comment that not base on this post. overlapping the idea alr. anyway thx you all support

    By Blogger wAisEnG, At 2:19 PM  

  • thx kristine..
    u can drop a comment.
    there are diff of love,
    diff of relation.
    thx ur comment

    By Blogger wAisEnG, At 1:48 PM  

  • im still wondering why u have such question so sudden~yep, really dunno hw 2 answer~kakaka

    By Blogger sv, At 12:47 AM  

  • no need wonder.. just answer haha..
    wait for ur answer la

    By Blogger wAisEnG, At 7:42 PM  

  • 三者都重要。他们分别满足了自己不同的需要。亲情-我们是被呵护的。友情-打打闹闹，不伤感情。还有肩膀出借。爱情-甜蜜？苦涩？如人饮水，冷暖自知。爱自己多一点。不是自私，而是每一段殘破敗壞的愛情，都有一個美好的起點。取自-《5*2》施宇

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 12:30 PM  

  • 在不同的阶段，不同的人对我们有不同的意义。
    当我们呱呱落地的时候，家人是最重要的。因为除了他们，没有人会照顾我们。
    当我们刚刚离开家里到学校去时，朋友对我们是最重要的，因为家人不能陪着我们。
    当我们需要与人建立一份永久并亲密的关系时，爱人是时候出现了。
    所以，不同的时候，我们需要是不同的东西。

    这只是我个人的看法。请多多指教~

    By Blogger Kae Vin, At 3:30 PM  

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